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Tipping Etiquette: When, Where, and How Much

Restaurants aren't the only place you're expected to tip. From baristas to hairdressers to hotel housekeepers, here's the complete guide to who deserves gratuity and how much to give.

📅 Last updated: January 2025⏱️ 6 min read

Quick Reference

The rule of thumb: tip 15-20% for full-service situations (restaurants, salons), 10-15% for limited service (delivery, taxis), and $1-5 per service for brief interactions (valet, bellhop).

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Restaurant Tipping Guidelines

Full-Service Dining

This is the big one. When a server takes your order, brings your food, refills drinks, and clears plates:

  • 18-20%: Standard for good service
  • 20-25%: Excellent service, complicated orders, or large groups
  • 15%: Bare minimum if service was just okay
  • 10-12%: Only if service was genuinely bad (and you've talked to a manager)

Pro tip: Tip on the pre-tax amount. If your bill is £100 before tax and £112 after, tip on £100.

Buffets & Self-Service

10-15%: Even though you get your own food, someone still clears plates, refills drinks, and cleans up after you. Lower tip is fine, but don't skip it entirely.

Fine Dining

20-25%: High-end restaurants expect higher tips. If you're dropping £200 on dinner, £40-50 tip is standard. Also tip the sommelier separately if they spent time helping you choose wine (£10-20).

Bars & Coffee Shops

Coffee Shops & Cafes

The tip jar debate is real. Here's the breakdown:

  • Simple order (drip coffee): £0.50-1 or skip (it's okay!)
  • Fancy drink (latte, specialty): £1-2 or 10-15%
  • Table service: 15% like a regular restaurant

Don't feel guilty about not tipping at Starbucks. Baristas earn full hourly wages, unlike restaurant servers. But if they made your complicated order perfectly, a quid in the jar is nice.

Bars & Pubs

  • Per drink: £1-2 per drink, or 15-20% if running a tab
  • Complex cocktails: £2-3 (bartenders work hard on those)
  • UK pubs: Tipping isn't expected for simple pints—offer to "buy one for yourself" instead
  • US bars: Always tip $1-2 per drink minimum

Delivery & Takeout Tipping

Food Delivery

Delivery drivers deserve tips—they use their own cars, pay for petrol, and deal with traffic.

  • Standard delivery: 15-20% or £3-5 minimum
  • Bad weather/far distance: 20-25% or £5+ minimum
  • Large/complicated orders: Add extra £2-5
  • Late delivery (not driver's fault): Still tip the driver—they don't control kitchen timing

Important: Delivery apps take huge cuts. Tip in cash if possible so drivers get 100%.

Takeout/Pickup

0-10%: You can skip tipping on takeout, but if someone packaged your order carefully, checked everything, or added extras, £1-3 or 10% is appreciated. Not required though.

Taxis, Rideshares & Transportation

Uber/Lyft/Rideshares

15-20%: Same as restaurants. The app makes it easy—just tap the percentage. Tip more for helping with luggage, great conversation, or going out of their way.

Traditional Taxis

10-15%: Round up to the nearest £5 or £10. If the fare is £18, give £20 and say "keep the change." For airport runs with luggage, add £2-5 extra.

Valet Parking

£2-5: Tip when they bring your car back, not when you hand over keys. £2-3 for standard service, £5 if they had to retrieve it quickly or dealt with difficult parking.

Personal Services Tipping

Hairdressers & Barbers

15-20%: Standard tip. More if they spent extra time or fixed a problem. Tip your stylist directly, and if someone else washed your hair, give them £2-5 separately.

Nail Salons & Spas

15-20%: For manicures, pedicures, massages, facials. If multiple people served you, split the tip or tip each person 10-15%.

Tattoo Artists

15-20%: Tattoos are expensive, but artists spend hours on custom work. A £200 tattoo deserves a £40 tip. Some people tip more for exceptional work or multi-session pieces.

Personal Trainers & Instructors

Optional: Not expected for regular sessions, but a holiday tip (equivalent to one session's cost) or a thoughtful gift is appreciated at year-end.

Hotel & Travel Tipping

Hotel Housekeeping

£2-5 per night: Leave cash on the pillow or nightstand with a note. Different staff clean each day, so tip daily rather than one lump sum at checkout.

Bellhops & Porters

£1-2 per bag: More if bags are heavy or if they showed you around the room. For a family of four with lots of luggage, £5-10 total is appropriate.

Concierge

£5-20: Depends on what they did. Made a simple restaurant reservation? £5-10. Got you sold-out concert tickets? £20+. Nothing for basic directions.

Room Service

Check the bill first! Many hotels add 18-20% gratuity automatically. If not included, tip 15-20% like a restaurant. Even if gratuity is included, £2-5 cash for the delivery person is nice.

When NOT to Tip

Not every transaction requires a tip. Here's where you can skip it guilt-free:

  • Fast food counters (McDonald's, KFC, etc.)
  • Self-checkout or kiosks
  • Retail stores (shop assistants earn hourly wages)
  • Movie theaters
  • Doctors, dentists, lawyers (you're already paying them plenty)
  • Flight attendants (it's actually against airline policy)
  • Government services (DMV, post office)

If there's a tip jar and you don't want to tip, don't feel bad. Optional means optional.

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